Category Archives: Spirituality

Listening to the messages within…


As I worked in the garden today, which I haven’t done in such a long time, I just enjoyed being out in the sunshine with my thoughts. 

Over the last seven days, I have been getting several very clear and repetitive messages about where I’m headed, as I have been asking for clear guidance. I have been mulling over several different choices and spreading my time and energy over too many things – honestly I’ve not been travelling very far or gaining any real momentum. 

What’s the difference between coincidences and synchronicities (clear guidance)?? 

Firstly, when I first explored the question of my life direction, I always ask about providing clear messages that I will understand. So for me I usually have pretty vivid and surreal dreams, music 🎶 on the radio, the type of crystal I want to have and throw in abit of astral travel and I’m all set to receive. This means I receive messages from several sources, really authenticating the messages given. 

Secondly my intuition plays a massive role in having faith and trust in what messages comes to me. Without that, I would just continue to feel lost, helpless and just breezing through life without any meaning. I mean, what’s the point of life without any purpose right??!

Finally, the fact that my focus is on clarity and searching for answers, helps me to father the evidence I need to make that step toward a decision. 

What are the themes of the messages?

There are a few themes that have stood out over the past week, which can be relevant for everyone – love and relationships. Everything I do revolves around lobe and relationships because all of my career revolves around connecting with others and doing this through a love space. So what does this have to do with my future? Im at a crossroad right now, balancing and juggling between my health and wellness, working full time with young people, working as a coach and reiki master, and looking to expand my family. The core component to these areas always comes back to love and relationships.

In particular this love and relationships is more about myself – an internal worthiness for love and a knowing of myself, and allowing this to expand outwards to encompass others.

Tools to creating change

For the past four days I have been using liquid crystals. A special blend of three different crystals targeting specific areas to energetically heal – and the main one, you guessed, smariynd releasing issues of the heart ❤️. I will be utilising these for 21 days and I will be exploring what changes have come about because of this. 

I have also been using my collection of cards, but in particular, my sacred Geometry cards by Francene Hart. Wow. I love these cards and I love how I can connect with the sacred geometry on another level – to help feed the soul, so deep down, beyond the reach of the stars…..

So from here….

I now KNOW where I’m headed, what I exactly need to do, and all I need to do now DO IT!!  Easier said than done, just small steps.  I’ll keep you posted… Cheryl ❤️

Rising up….stronger than ever!


Now let me tell you, I’ve had more than my fair share of strength building, character testing experiences in my life, particularly of late.

I used to tell myself, how could God do this to me! How could my friend do this to me!! Why does this ALWAYS happen to me when things were just about to get good!

Sound familiar….well??

I’d be lying if I said I’d never said anything like this, but hind sight and reflection are beautiful things!  Our lives are meant to be lived and that’s why we have our “challenges”.

I say “challenges” but I’d question this “concept” of what is a challenge. Several ideas come to mind though:

  1. If you believe in reincarnation and that we choose to come back to a particular life at a particular time, then I’m afraid you have set yourself up for the life you requested. It is a chronicle of our journey of awakening of our consciousness. To be able to utilise previously learned talents, skills and higher knowledge. We have a closer connection to God and are rewarded with higher sense of ourselves. I believe this is true for me; no doubt!
  2. Self-limiting beliefs – believing that you are not worthy of “good” things in your life. This might be you if you find yourself getting to a certain point with progress with a goal and then all of a sudden it turns to shit – this my friend is what we call self-sabotaging. I too am guilty of this, however I am more consciously aware of this than I ever have been.
  3. You are what you speak – simply put, if you’re are going to say to yourself I can’t do this, you won’t. There are several factors influencing this – our minds are so powerful, our thoughts impact our choices, our actions, ultimately affecting decisions made. We are interconnected beings of energy and we attract our like.we create an energy beacon, unconsciously attracting and leading the way for “bad stuff”, like a ship is to a lighthouse.

Ultimately we all have choices in our life – free will. No one has the power to interfere with our free will, unless we want them to. Ultimately there are always going to be “good” or “bad” situations, however how you interact with that, how you respond, that’s definitely on you. There doesn’t have to be good and bad, right or wrong, yes or no. We can simply choose to ask ourselves, what can I learn from this situation? Thank the situation for happening – I know what you’re thinking right now – “oh she must be crazy!” You might think, how can I possibly say thankyou, say if my grandmother died. Now don’t get me wrong, that situation I just mentioned is a time for grief, remembering the great experiences you shared with each other. All I’m saying is, by constantly allowing that grief, sadness or anger to overcome you, it lowers your energy and of those around you, particularly the one that has passed on.

Have you heard the saying, “If you love someone you need to set them free”. This demonstrates that they will return to you, to help you, but you must let them go. And you can do this by celebrating their life and helping yourself to grieve.


Something that has just recently touched my heart was the realisation about having expectations and how this impacts on our “challenges”. Now I’ve realised that there has been an unconscious expectation that as a woman, I am entitled to particular choices. However this is not necessarily the case. But being faced with this perceived imbalance, initially led me to feel sad, angry and reverting to the why me? After some meditation and self reiki, I realised there are lessons for me to learn. I’ve not heard all messages yet but so far I’m back on track to my higher path.

If you’re reading this, I want you to read between the lines! I want you to take away that we have the key to unlock the door; to locate the resources we need to achieve our higher purpose.

As always, with keen interest I look forward to hearing from others.

Sending healing love and light…..Ms.C ❤️